Joined a competition lately and I was asked: "What kind of personality do you have?"
I muttered something like me being a caring person and a very detailed person.
Is that really attractive personality traits?
I guess not because even I myself don't find me attractive.
Here's a result to my DISC personality test.
It says:
You are
conscientious, diligent and pay attention to detail.
You constantly strive for
accuracy and high standards.
You have an inner drive to
be systematic and precise in all that you do.
Nothing special. I was just being me all this while.
I don't have strong leadership skills.
I am not optimist, not talkative.
I am not an attractive person.
SO WHAT?
One's personality does not stay there like forever.
It changes as time goes by, it does not matter what kind of personality you have initially.
I used to be a quiet person, a really shy one, I did not mingle around at freshies night back in uni. I do not have a lot of close friends in uni as well.
On the contrary, while waiting for my turn during the competition I have mentioned earlier, I managed to mingle around and make some new friends.
Taking the first step to approach people, compliment people.
And not to forget that it do require a whole lot of courage to join the competition.
Do you see the difference?
I am far beyond perfect but I am trying my very best. I am happy with just trying.
Jumping out of my comfort zone once in a while and be who I want to be.
I hope this helps, especially to those who are struggling to seek for his/her value in the world.
You can decide who you want to be.
